By Louella Tan

Philippine Daily Inquirer-Apr 5, 2024

Whenever I want to pee in public restrooms, I get chased down by security guards. For trans people, getting kicked out of spaces usually happens when you go to the one you identify with. But I don’t do that. I’m perpetually afraid of getting the head-to-toe stares from people trying to figure out, “What are you?” I tense up in cubicles because I’m unsure if I’m blending in enough for other men to believe that I prefer peeing while sitting down. Most of the time I’d rather hold it in and get a urinary tract infection. Read more at: https://opinion.inquirer.net/172681/the-trans-dilemma First published in Philippine Daily Inquirer